Nice sound advice here Jessica. Leave the crazier stuff to the more adventurous and do what feels natural and right to the relationship. Maybe something less “boring” will happen, but who cares if it does not. You are married and you do partake in cosplay, foreplay and as you admit, “kinky.” I am sure your partner cannot complain. 😁

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