Thank you Jessica for the great advice that offers the privileged men a way to not sound like a complete jerk. Remembering to preface our anecdotal “advice” with this is what I find happening with me is a simple way to not be that know of it all jerk. All anecdotal evidence is always biased by time, place, people and situation in an exact moment the will likely never happen again. Remembering people’s gender, race or level on income does affect everything we experience. We are all only human after all! 😁❤️